Saturday, November 29, 2008

read xiong's blog and had some running thoughts.. i guess no one enters a relationship hoping that it will fail.. but after these years i do have some form of mental preparation that the current relationship might terminate.. Yet I have never believed that merely one or two relationships are really sufficient in life to lead to marriage.. not that i feel we should enjoy a variety of company or stuff like tat.. but tat in failing one or even 2 relationships come invaluable experience that prevents the next one from failing.. n sometimes on hindsight, we really realise tat the breakup is beneficial for both parties perhaps.. However, i do agree with xiong tat couples will always have differences.. so the determinant of how long a relationship lasts is really the capacity of our tolerance and ability to compromise..




in any case.. i have learnt quite a great deal from my lecturer this sem.. thought surpression.. telling someone not to think of a white bear or an ex-flame provoked the person to think of him or her more.. so when friends come to you teling u they cant stop thinking of someone or somethg, the worst thing to do is to tell them to try to stop thinking.. scientifically proven.. studies have also found that the rejector undergoes higher negativity than the rejected.. n i would guess the person initiatg the breakup might feel worse too.. so dun hate them too much perhaps cuz they realli dun want to.. then again these findings are not deterministic but probabilistic, so.. uta u guys to believe..





rough times recently.. with cherylene breaking down mentally or physically almost every alternate day due to stress.. trying to encourage her that she will ged her "A"s and first class when i might lose my 2nd upper soon.. cooking noodles for her, runing errands.. n sometimes i dun understand why she does some things.. like taking the carton of apple juice out from the fridge then ask me to help her pour into the cup instead of doing it herself.. but i was glad that she was ever-forgiving for me playing basketball everyday.. n buying lots of food that i like from the supermarket.. bt i do randomly hope that she will cook for me.. or help me clean my room.. cuz sometimes like she says, i am really being the female.. n tats quite sian.. pros and cons, ups and downs, all part of a relationship.. but i always look at the up sides! ust hope exam will be over fast and cherylene will be stress free again!





exams ending on wednesday! yay!

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on air for the 1st time ytd nite! hmmm.. quite a fun experience la.. but i felt i din do tat well and could have done better.. and cuz NUS network sucks, the school online radio was like down and many of my frens cldnt hear me when i was on air.. then the 883 website dunno why some pple cannot vote for me.. maybe cuz its the school network again.. rahhh..

then again.. i think its an invaluable experience la.. n guys, if ya havent voted and wanna try.. just go 883jia.com.sg, scroll down abit and click on my name on the right.. or sms cr01 to 96630883.. many thanks to those who listened.. like wang hu ran back to sheares hall to hear me on air and elaine for refreshing her browser and somehow managed to vote thrice! n when icame back to hall, CY even help me use his meetoto to jio all the malaysians to vote for me! thanks bro.. gandong! iportantly, needya support at heeren! 20th dec at 2pm! all my best frens hope ta seeya there!!! =)
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receiving scroll from Dr Vivian..

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got called up ytd and was told tat im representing NUS in the finals for 883's DJ hunt or something.. hahaha.. SHOCKING!!! then suddenly remembered tat weide dragged me to the booth at central forum to just read some passage before i was interviewed by DJs regarding my hobbies... hahaha, great, i never ever mind having something exciting coming up in my life, heh.. so catch me on air FM 883 JiaFM on the 24th NOV and 8th DEC at 10pm.. finals will be on the 20th nxt mthbut dunno abt details yet.. do vote for me and ged ya frens' help! hahaha




mich and ashvin..



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