Saturday, November 29, 2008
read xiong's blog and had some running thoughts.. i guess no one enters a relationship hoping that it will fail.. but after these years i do have some form of mental preparation that the current relationship might terminate.. Yet I have never believed that merely one or two relationships are really sufficient in life to lead to marriage.. not that i feel we should enjoy a variety of company or stuff like tat.. but tat in failing one or even 2 relationships come invaluable experience that prevents the next one from failing.. n sometimes on hindsight, we really realise tat the breakup is beneficial for both parties perhaps.. However, i do agree with xiong tat couples will always have differences.. so the determinant of how long a relationship lasts is really the capacity of our tolerance and ability to compromise..
in any case.. i have learnt quite a great deal from my lecturer this sem.. thought surpression.. telling someone not to think of a white bear or an ex-flame provoked the person to think of him or her more.. so when friends come to you teling u they cant stop thinking of someone or somethg, the worst thing to do is to tell them to try to stop thinking.. scientifically proven.. studies have also found that the rejector undergoes higher negativity than the rejected.. n i would guess the person initiatg the breakup might feel worse too.. so dun hate them too much perhaps cuz they realli dun want to.. then again these findings are not deterministic but probabilistic, so.. uta u guys to believe..
rough times recently.. with cherylene breaking down mentally or physically almost every alternate day due to stress.. trying to encourage her that she will ged her "A"s and first class when i might lose my 2nd upper soon.. cooking noodles for her, runing errands.. n sometimes i dun understand why she does some things.. like taking the carton of apple juice out from the fridge then ask me to help her pour into the cup instead of doing it herself.. but i was glad that she was ever-forgiving for me playing basketball everyday.. n buying lots of food that i like from the supermarket.. bt i do randomly hope that she will cook for me.. or help me clean my room.. cuz sometimes like she says, i am really being the female.. n tats quite sian.. pros and cons, ups and downs, all part of a relationship.. but i always look at the up sides! ust hope exam will be over fast and cherylene will be stress free again!
exams ending on wednesday! yay!
weilie * 7:49 PM 0 rocked with me
Monday, November 24, 2008
on air for the 1st time ytd nite! hmmm.. quite a fun experience la.. but i felt i din do tat well and could have done better.. and cuz NUS network sucks, the school online radio was like down and many of my frens cldnt hear me when i was on air.. then the 883 website dunno why some pple cannot vote for me.. maybe cuz its the school network again.. rahhh..
then again.. i think its an invaluable experience la.. n guys, if ya havent voted and wanna try.. just go 883jia.com.sg, scroll down abit and click on my name on the right.. or sms cr01 to 96630883.. many thanks to those who listened.. like wang hu ran back to sheares hall to hear me on air and elaine for refreshing her browser and somehow managed to vote thrice! n when icame back to hall, CY even help me use his meetoto to jio all the malaysians to vote for me! thanks bro.. gandong! iportantly, needya support at heeren! 20th dec at 2pm! all my best frens hope ta seeya there!!! =)
weilie * 5:51 PM 0 rocked with me
Thursday, November 20, 2008
receiving scroll from Dr Vivian..my wei3 da4 de mum! another shot! my mum grabs someone to take a pic for us, hope its not some minister, hahaattended the awards ceremony recently and took some shots.. was kindof sad cher cldnt come in the end due to a project meeting.. but after the ceremony, had a great time wif my mum.. went to do some shopping then had a sumptuos lunch at shaslik.. n here, i would like to thank my mum for sponsoring my trip to taiwan! but i abit paiseh, so maybe half half, haha.. but its great to be going taiwan wif thong meng and ray.. dear.. kets go overseas soon k?
OMG!!! ULTRA destresing meal at pu tien at vivo wif jy and HH..
our BASIN of loh mee!!!!
OMG!!! ULTRA destresing meal at pu tien at vivo wif jy and HH.. our BASIN of loh mee!!!!monster meal with HH and JY.. HH went to the toilet then the waitress ask:" how big do you want your loh mee to be?" then JY say HH sure very hungry, and im oso very scared cuz everytime i refuse to order so much cuz HH will end up not full enuf.. so we ordered a 13 bucks bowl of loh mee with 4 dishes.. almost had to dabao cuz the loh mee was like served in a basin looking bowl.. but together as brothers united, we finished everything!!!! wahahahaa... may our friendship further strengthen overcoming this adversity, haha.. miss xiong alot tho.. hopeta seeya soon! n show us ya hip hop bear moves, heh
dear looking like some careerwoman..
The only gui3 lian3 shot wif dear.. abit literally though, haha, realli look like ghost haha
couple mugging hairbands! lets start a new trend!
beautiful christmas tree!
nice lights!
dear looking like some careerwoman.. The only gui3 lian3 shot wif dear.. abit literally though, haha, realli look like ghost haha couple mugging hairbands! lets start a new trend! beautiful christmas tree! nice lights!havent had much time to go out.. and this was some respite for me n dear.. n i realise vivo city is really a great place during the mugging period.. wanna ged some respite but dun wanna travel too far.. then this is the place to go to! haha.. and guys ill be on air on the 24th from 10-12 on 883.. can catch me toking nonsense.. hope i do well in this comp! then can go taiwan a 2nd tme free! haha
weilie * 7:15 PM 0 rocked with me
Monday, November 10, 2008
got called up ytd and was told tat im representing NUS in the finals for 883's DJ hunt or something.. hahaha.. SHOCKING!!! then suddenly remembered tat weide dragged me to the booth at central forum to just read some passage before i was interviewed by DJs regarding my hobbies... hahaha, great, i never ever mind having something exciting coming up in my life, heh.. so catch me on air FM 883 JiaFM on the 24th NOV and 8th DEC at 10pm.. finals will be on the 20th nxt mthbut dunno abt details yet.. do vote for me and ged ya frens' help! hahaha
mich and ashvin.. izabelle n me!!! ai xin tang yuan coked by CY!!!! (damn gay rite me n him, haha, huihuang dun be jealous) another shot of the tangyuans... CY preparing to swallow tangyuan!grea to live beside CY, not tat i din like the people from my previous block.. just tat they smoke, play poker, club and everythg but tats just not wad i always do.. so i do feel abit distant sometimes.. singing, playing basketball.. some things i share with this brother.. tho i think he takes things too seriously and is quite money-conscous, he is realli a great fren who will help in times of need.. like helping me to cook tangyuan! Hehe..
not doing well in my tests.. though i studied hard, realli.. like my bahasa, they vchanged format n i wasnt told, so i carelessly left 25% of my paper empty and got 54/100 for my paper.. wtf rite.. but o well.. i guess CAP score's nt everythg.. ill try even harder for the exams! n i uploaded a random composition, remix of ke ren lai, with me singing and rapping, CY on bass and singing the 2nd verse while i rap.. n hu pan on beatbox! hope it cheers u guys up! =) n Frens, dun ged too stressed over exams!!!
weilie * 9:39 PM 1 rocked with me
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