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taiwan variety show food tasting!!!

Aniwaes, recently one of my friends blew up and shouted at another friend after a game at basketball regarding how the person shld have played.. While wad he scolded can be right, the reaction of the person who got shouted at was of cuz very bad.. and the friendship almost soured between them.. This is just another example of how we shld treat conflicts i guess.. Having differences is common, but how we resolve them is important, especially to a psychologist like me.. First things first we must ask ourselves wad is the aim of shouting at he person.. if it is to bring about change, then the tone and expression wise, wad is the best way to trigger a receptive response? And the moment we ged angry, 1st thg tat comes to mind shld alwaz be the awareness that we always underestimate the possibility that our seemingly flawless arguments are filled with flaws and errors.. hence, shouting plus content that is flawed can destroy relationships between frens, couples or even families..

So my friends.. dun blow up so easily k? wan4 shi4 hao3 shang1 liang2 =) HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!