recently i have a fren hu started liking a gal... he always helped her out in shifting out of her hostel and even moving in to sheraes... they oso always met up for dinner n stuff n became very close... then he decided to tell her that he likes her but got rejected... the gal told him not to waste too much time on her and that in someway, she thinks that she is making use of him... after she told my fren not waste too much time on her, she asked him to help her move some stuff again the next day... when my fren asked whyshe said she din noe hu to go to...

i think i must have a counsellor face... he tells me almost everyday abt wad happens bet him and her... n everytime i seem to be the listening side of my frens' emotional problems... hahaha... maybe tats why i got the scholarship 2 become social worker hahaa... but no matter la, tho everyday listen to him abit tiring... but wad to do... hope he recovers soon... n told him wad i always felt.. i think sometimes when we are so nice to a person, the person takes it for granted and does not even bother about you at all or noe how important you are... i dun understand hiw some pple needa lose someone or somethg b4 realising how impt it is... cant they realise even when the person is arnd???!!! ive been thru somethg similar and indeed when i made myself available, i was treated like grass... when i left, the person "chased" me back... n once i agreed to be together... all the gd thgs started to disappear le...

those of you hu take thgs or pple around u, pls wake up and stop torturing pple like me and my frens, thanx... but im oso so glad that im not facing such problems at the moment =)